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IT’S ‘DATE NIGHT’ WITH LUKE MONDAY AND JD DUMAS

San Diego Musical Theatre's logo for Date Night musical coming in March.

by tim parks

San Diego Musical Theatre is adapting to the times we are living in by presenting Date Night, a virtual musical play that will be streamed live Thursday, March 11 through Sunday, March 14.

The plot of Date Night centers around Daytime Emmy Award-winning actress Carolyn Hennesey, who is meeting a blind date at a neighborhood wine bar.

Also joining the evening’s shenanigans are four musical-based real-life couples, including gay duo Luke Monday and JD Dumas. Over the course of the play, each couple tell stories about how they met and feature vocal performances of their favorite songs.

THE RAGE MONTHLY SPOKE WITH MONDAY AND DUMAS ABOUT BRINGING THEIR 8½ YEAR RELATIONSHIP TO THE STAGE AND THE CHALLENGES OF PERFORMING IN FRONT OF A VIRTUAL AUDIENCE. 

Headshot of Luke Monday who stars in the March 2021 production of DATE NIGHT presented by San Diego Musical Theatre.
Luke Monday

For Monday, the “tough part” of detailing their couplehood through song proved to be a difficult task. 

“JD and I have worked on many, many shows together and so we had a lot of songs and shows to pick from in terms of material,” he said. “Ultimately we went with songs that sort of illustrate the beginnings of our life together. For example, the song I chose is “I Got Life” from Hair, because that is the show that brought JD into my life. The other songs we chose also reflect those key moments in our relationship.” 

While Dumas expressed that the way in which they met presented its own set of challenges, as they were initially in the friend zone, but are now “engaged with two beautiful dogs and a cute condo,” and he considers it “the best leap of faith I ever made.”   

“A story we plan to tell during our portion of Date Night, is how it wasn’t love at first sight. We met doing a show, at which time Luke was in a relationship,” Dumas said. “There’s also a significant age difference –12 years – between us, so with both of those being factors in our meeting – we were definitely only friends.

“Advances weren’t made until Luke’s prior relationship had ended a few months prior, at which time Luke had expressed feelings for me. I was very apprehensive and wasn’t ready to jump into a relationship. I felt it best to hang out and kind of play it by ear.”

And playing it by ear to a virtual audience is “definitely an odd experience” for Dumas. He explained how the process has unfolded for him.

“We have had chances to perform via Zoom from our home. The first time we did, we had to rehearse when to pause as if we could hear people applaud or laughter,” he said. “It’s nice to see faces pop up on the screen, but we sure miss experiencing the energy and reaction of a live audience.”

But this isn’t Monday’s first time at the rodeo, in terms of performing live before a virtual audience during the pandemic. It marks his second time.

“Back in April 2020, I teamed up with the folks at Oceanside Theatre Company and Scripps Ranch Theatre Company to produce a live-streamed version of my cabaret, Callback Queen,” he said. “Although it did take some getting used to, it was ultimately such a joy to just get to perform again.

“As actors we often have to put ourselves in imaginary circumstances, so it wasn’t that much of a stretch to imagine an audience was there, even though we were in our guest bedroom,” Monday added. “I’m thrilled to have the opportunity to perform again, and I think the audience watching at home will love this show.”

Recently in the entertainment world, there have been a few cases of straight actors tackling gay roles who have faced backlash. James Corden was lambasted for his take on playing it gay in the Netflix production of The Prom, and Brendan Fraser is courting controversy with the upcoming film The Whale, in which he plays a 600-pound gay man. We asked the out actors to give us their two cents worth on straight actors playing gay roles.

Headshot of JD Dumas who stars in the March 2021 production of DATE NIGHT presented by San Diego Musical Theatre.
JD Dumas

“I’m fine with straight actors playing gay roles. Gay actors portray straight people as well,” Dumas said. “I believe it really comes down to the portrayal and authenticity of how they play character or person.”

Monday also echoed that sentiment, saying it is dependent upon the performance that is being delivered.

“I think it’s a very delicate matter. Ultimately if the portrayal of the gay character is nuanced, honest and not a caricature, I think any straight actor should be able to portray a gay character,” he said. “That being said, I also think representation is so important and seeing out gay actors working in Hollywood matters so much. Ultimately, I suppose it is up to the director and their vision.”

As for their vision of what they hope the  takeaway will be from those watching Date Night, both concurred that being able to entertain during the pandemic could prove to be a light in the dark, especially for those who have missed the theatre-going experience.

“My hope is that it will be a cathartic and joyful experience for folks to see live theatre again after all this time in quarantine,” Monday said. “I know for me, it’ll be so refreshing and fun to perform with my partner. And I really look forward to seeing the other couples do their thing!”

Dumas also hopes that this semi-return to some semblance of normalcy in getting a retooled form of entertainment is just as important for the actors, as it is for the audience.

“Above everything, I hope the audience is able to have the opportunity to enjoy theatre and the arts. That they will have a fun time getting to know each couple a bit more and how they got together,” he summarized. “During these unpredictable times, I hope they take away the yearning we want to be able to do our craft and provide some sort of joyful outlet.” 

All proceeds from Date Night go directly towards SDMT future Broadway musical productions for the 2021 season.

For tickets and more information, go to: sdmt.org/shows/date-night